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Can Therapy Help With My Anxiety?
It can be hard to know when to start therapy and what it can help with. There is no single “right time” and people begin therapy at different stages in their lives, for many different reasons. For some people, ongoing anxiety that begins to affect daily life, work, or relationships can be one of those reasons. If you’re wondering whether therapy for anxiety might help you, you’re not alone in asking that question. What Is Anxiety and Why Does It Feel So Overwhelming? Anxiety
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Feb 262 min read


A moment that changed me
Reflections from a counsellor in Bath on the quiet moments that bring people to therapy. The Guardian runs a regular feature titled A moment that changed me . It’s the sort of piece I often read at the beginning or end of a day of client sessions - personal stories that leave you feeling connected to the writer and their experience, and quietly hopeful. The premise is simple: the storyteller shares a moment or experience that altered how they saw themselves, their lives, or
maddiechorltoncoun
Jan 132 min read


What does ‘being yourself’ really mean?
The idea of being yourself can feel elusive. It can sound like something that exists only in films or on inspirational posters boldly declaring: JUST BE YOURSELF For some people, the thought of being yourself feels anything but easy, it might even feel frightening. “What if I show who I am and people don’t like me? What if they think I’m strange, too much, or not enough?” But perhaps there’s a different, and far more compassionate, question to ask yourself: What do I lose by
maddiechorltoncoun
Nov 25, 20252 min read


You Don’t Need to Be in Crisis to Start Therapy
Have you thought about starting therapy but stopped yourself because things aren’t that bad? “I don’t need it yet.” “But I’m not in...
maddiechorltoncoun
Oct 8, 20252 min read


Ever felt like you’re too much? Or not enough?
Maybe this is a situation you recognise - you’re amongst friends, laughing loudly when a feeling of being too much starts to creep in....
maddiechorltoncoun
Oct 3, 20252 min read


How to connect with the changing seasons
The shortening days, cloudy skies and rainier weather are all signs that autumn has arrived. And this year it certainly feels like it has...
maddiechorltoncoun
Sep 16, 20253 min read


Let's Talk Therapy: what it is and what it definitely isn't (part 2)
Okay, as promised, here’s part 2 - because let’s be honest, there can be a lot of misunderstandings around therapy! I offer all potential...
maddiechorltoncoun
Jul 15, 20252 min read


Let’s Talk Therapy: what it is and what it definitely isn’t (Part 1)
Before we get into it, I’m going to start this with a disclaimer: the truths in this post might be quite universal, but I can’t speak for...
maddiechorltoncoun
Jun 10, 20253 min read


Oh, what (a) feeling(s)…
The saying goes, ‘name them, to tame them’. And no, that's not referring to wild animals, we’re talking about feelings. Those things we...
maddiechorltoncoun
May 28, 20252 min read


Permission to feel
Feelings can get a bad rep. And yet here we are, feeling them all day long. Yes happiness, excitement and joy tend to get the okay, but...
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May 14, 20251 min read


When words get in the way
Have you ever read a book and found yourself re-reading a line twice, three times… maybe more, because something about it resonates in a...
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May 14, 20252 min read


When's the right time to start therapy?
What made you decide you wanted to start therapy? Or perhaps you're still unsure if it's the right time for you. People begin for a whole...
maddiechorltoncoun
May 14, 20251 min read


“But how can therapy help me?”
I hear you. If you’ve never had therapy before, it’s hard to know what it will be like and how it could help. It’s a big leap to commit...
maddiechorltoncoun
May 14, 20252 min read


Self-care: what you might think it looks like vs what it actually looks like. And why speaking to a counsellor might be the self-care you need.
Self-care is a term that has become synonymous with a spa break, weekends away or expensive purchases for yourself. And while those might...
maddiechorltoncoun
May 14, 20252 min read
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